Master - SubmissiveDear Master Anton, It can be determined by many different variables. The biggest variable is the needs of the particular submissive. Learning what works for your partner makes a good Master. Over the years I have had submissives that were there for pain, humiliation, bondage, foot worship, sex and any number of other things. Each submissive, bottom, slave has very unique needs. You as a Master must be able to identify those needs both through conversation and observation. Every single submissive that I have ever been with has totally different needs. It also differs if you're in a 24/7 live in situation or just getting together periodically for playtime. I have done both. Years ago I decided that 24/7 was not for Me personally. Submissives require lots of time. As you know, I run Rhiannon (MistressRhiannon.com) and My (FuryGirls.com) websites as well as others for a major publishing company. I photograph nude women for various magazines, (rotten job, but somebody has to do it) and maintain My studio/dungeon. I don't have spare time. This year I may even take a vacation. You must be in tune with your partner and be able to read between the lines. During play you have to read their body language and know when to go harder and when to back off. Keep in mind that someone could get hurt very easily and nobody wants that. I feel that I can't give a person what they need in a 24/7 relationship. I do, however, like to meet with different people from time to time to play in My dungeon. We get together, the ground rules are always pre-set and discussed and Myself and My partner always have a great time. There are a myriad of things that make a good Master, the least of which is the actual physical aspect of play. Your mind is the most important tool you possess. Anybody can pick up a whip and smack somebody. Anybody can open a book on knots and learn to tie somebody up. There are dozens of books out there on technique. The true Masters can make a submissive stay in a position merely by talking to them. You use your mind to get into your partners head and get a grip on what really makes them tick. Once you establish a bond like that, there is nothing better. Read the complete story and many more by joining Fury Pix today... Return Back To Fury Pix Main Page PARENTS: Protect your children on the Internet. © 2003 S&E COMMUNICATIONS, INC Master Submissive |